Thomas Byrnes (1883-1973)

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Introduction

 

PART 1:

 BYRNES FAMILY

 

ANCESTORS’ CHARTS :

(Parents of Peter Byrnes):

Thomas Byrnes

Lily Dance

 

 

INDIVIDUAL SUMMARIES

(left): Thomas Byrnes, father of Peter Byrnes.  This photo has been taken from a home movie, shot  in the 1950s by Thomas's son-in-law Jim Boyle.  To see it in the movie, plus a short sequence of Thomas's wife Lily, see the entry on Thomas's son, Peter on this site.

 

Thomas, a railway guard for most of his life, was also a keen athlete - and he wrote about these two facets of  his life in a series of memoirs for the Queensland Times, in the 1950s, after he had retired from Queensland Railways.

These memoirs have now been transcribed, and can be read by clicking here:

 

Father

James BYRNES (b 1857 Wellington NZ)
Mother "Grace" Sarah Johanna POBAR (b Mar 18 1862, Dalby, Q
Birth  Oct 19 1883 in Black Gully, Toowoomba, Queensland[1]
Lived at Toowoomba,,Brisbane, Ipswich and Boonah: 19 Kendall Street, East Ipswich (bet 1924 and 1950); Balmoral, Brisbane, (1950-1973)
Occupation A printer’s assistant, a clerk in his mother’s family’s butchery in Toowoomba (Pobar’s butchers) and train guard with Queensland Railways
Death  July 1973 in Brisbane, Queensland[2]
Marriage Amelia (Lily) DANCE (St. Mary’s Ipswich 1913)[3]
Children 

Mary BYRNES (1913 - 2004)

Grace  BYRNES (1915 - 2004)

Thomas  BYRNES  (1916-2010)

Joan  BYRNES (1917- 1986)

Francis  BYRNES (1919 - 1995)

Peter BYRNES (1922-2016) , married Joan Gaffey, 1943 Sydney

Kathleen BYRNES (1923-2010)

Margaret BYRNES

Eileen BYRNES (1927-2011)

Teresa BYRNES (1932-2016) 

Clare BYRNES

Thomas Byrnes, with 11 children and more than 50 grandchildren and great-grand-children, was the patriarch of a large family. 

He was born in 1883 in Black Gully, in the Wilsonton area of north-west Toowoomba where his mother’s family, the Pobars, lived.

Shortly after his birth, Tom was taken to Brisbane, where his father was a compositor with the Government Printing Office.  He was educated in Brisbane first at what was called “the Normal school”, a highly-rated primary school (in inner Brisbane near the intersection of Edward and Adelaide streets), and then to a GPS school, St. Joseph’s College at Gregory Terrace, known to all simply as “Gregory Terrace” or simply “Terrace” (left)

 

In later years, Tom recalled that when he was a boy, living with his parents and young brother James at Kangaroo Point, he was an altar boy in his local parish.  The parish extended for a considerable distance, and when a new church was opened many miles away at Balmoral, Tom was called on for the ceremony, and he was invited to accompany the parish priest in his sulky for the occasion.  This church became the local church for Tom when he retired to Balmoral, some 60 years later.

In his late teens, Tom continued the family connection with the printing trade, joining his father at the Government Printing Office as a proof reader’s assistant, and then working as a “reviser” for the Daily Mail newspaper, in Brisbane, for more than a year. Next, he went to Toowoomba, and worked as a book-keeper in his mother’s family’s butcher shop.  In 1907, 23 year old Tom made yet another career move – this time, one with more long-term prospects.  He joined Queensland Railways in Brisbane as a porter and after three years on the platforms, became a train guard, at age 27 the youngest guard in Queensland Railways, according to one newspaper report.[4]  For two years, Tom went up and down on the line from Ipswich to Marburg, after the opening of the line in 1912.

In Marburg, a town composed of settlers of mainly German origin, he met Lily Dance, the daughter and granddaughter of Marburg farmers who, coincidentally, also owned and operated a butcher shop.  In reminiscences Tom wrote more than 40 years later for a local newspaper, he recalled that

 “Marburg was a busy little farming centre.  There were two hotels, a butter factory, a police station with a sergeant in charge and a constable, a dance hall, showground and a good brass band.

Tom, in his railway guard uniform, sitting on cow catcher (far right) on the first train to Marburg, 1912.

Photo courtesy: Pat Dugger

These memoirs are quite remarkable – written as they were in 1952, when Tom was nearly 70 years of age.  They show an amazing memory for detail of life, work and sport before and after two World Wars.[5] He was paid a total of £3/13/6 for the series of seven articles. 

Life must have been busy then – as well as working long hours with many days away from home, courting Lily when the train took him to Marburg, he was elected as a union branch secretary, a position he held for two years before he was transferred to Boonah.

The construction of the Marburg line, which was so instrumental in the courtship of Tom and Lily had been built after a financial guarantee by the farmers of the Marburg district, including presumably Lily’s father, Bill Dance, a prominent local farmer and businessman.  At that time, the principal cargo for the line was sugar cane; the line was built to connect with a private line to a sugar mill.

In 1913, Tom and Lily married in St. Mary’s Church in Ipswich.  After the wedding, Tom and Lily lived at Woodend in Ipswich, then moved to the nearby township of Boonah,  before settling in the mid 1920s for most of their married life at 19 Kendall Street, East Ipswich. The house was probably bought or built with part of the proceeds of Lily’s bequest from her father, who died in 1924, and as a result, the house remained in Lily’s name.

Tom and Lily on their wedding day in 1913.

The life of a train guard was vastly different then, with many days and nights away from home.  Tom recalled that the accommodation for railwaymen in Toowoomba was very good, large and well-equipped, near the station.  He wrote:

“In the large kitchen were always two stoves burning night and day, and each bedroom had two beds.  Those days the men worked in real harmony with one another and some good tales were told while having midnight meals.”.

Tom was a very strong man, fond of athletics, and represented Queensland in marathon running and later in long distance walking races.  "Dad also liked a bet on the horses, but couldn’t afford this until all the children had grown up," his son Peter has said.

First Communion day for daughters Teresa and Clare

Tom and five of his daughters, in their Sunday best.

Thomas reserved the right for himself to name all his children.  Towards the end of the line of 11 children, it sometimes took him a long time to decide on the name - some, such as his son Peter, had to make do with only one Christian name.  When the time came to name the youngest child, a girl, Tom delayed making up his mind, much to the despair of his wife, who remonstrated with him that he had only one month after the birth to register the child, complete with name.  “I know, Lil, I know,” he would say to her urgings, “I’m still thinking about it”.  Finally, 30 days after her birth, Clare was named and her birth registered by her father.

World War 1, Tom continued his interest in athletics, when a club was formed in Boonah, and set about preparing for serious competition.  Before that, he had been an active member of the champion East Brisbane Harriers’ Club, but now, in 1920, he was invited to compete in the first South Australian marathon championships.

Middle age didn’t stop Tom making what were then lengthy journeys to compete in his favourite sport.  In 1926, he was invited, as the only Queenslander, to take part in the first 50-mile walking championship held in Sydney.  The field started from Martin Place, in the centre of the city, winding its way out to Upper Bankstown, and return.  He returned for a second attempt at this race in 1928, coming in sixth.

From Sun Sporting Pictorial, Brisbane, November 21, 1929::

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A rift developed between Tom and his mother Grace (Pobar) in the 1930s.  Son Peter says his father wasn’t certain what caused it – although he believed it may have been that his mother disapproved of his marriage to a farmer’s daughter, but whatever the cause, Tom was very grieved by it.  The family recalls two of Tom's cousins[6] replaced him in his mother’s affections, and, after the death of his father James in 1932, he wasn’t able to see her without one of them being present.

Tom was not told of his mother's death until after her funeral.  Peter says it was a very hard day for his father when he heard his mother had already been buried.  Grace's will did in fact disinherit Thomas completely in favour of her two nieces, while providing £100 for his brother James.[7]

The family of Thomas and Lily Byrnes at their home in East Ipswich, 1941 (shortly before their son Peter left Queensland to study at Sydney University).

Back row, from left: Joan, Peter, Frank, Tom and Kathleen

Centre: Margaret and Eileen

Front: Teresa, Mary, Thomas & Lily, Grace and Clare

 

              (right): Tom with his grand-children Peter and Mary Byrnes at his East Ipswich home, 1947.

 

 

Tom retired from the railways on New Years Eve, 1949 – but some few years before that, he featured in the rescue of a woman who had fallen from the station platform just as a train arrived.  To the everlasting gratitude of the woman, Tom’s swift reaction scooped her from danger, with only shock, a bruised hip and grazing to show for it.  The woman, Nora Long, of East Brisbane, wrote to Tom, thanking him and enclosing a lottery ticket, regretting that it was all she had to offer him.  Mrs Long said “I thought my days were numbered”.

 



Thomas Byrnes with the family's cow, outside the house in Kendall Street, East Ipswich.

His wife Lily was a farmer's daughter, and milked the cow to provide milk for their large family. Middle son Frank also helped with the daily task of milking.

 

After Tom retired from the railways, the couple left Ipswich and moved to the Brisbane suburb of Balmoral

 

 

right: The house at 38 Alexandra Street, Balmoral.

Thomas outlived his wife Lily by 15 years, and after her death, continued living in Balmoral with his youngest daughter Clare and her husband Pat Dugger.  Clare and Pat had already declared that Tom would have a home with them as long as he lived.  So, when the young Dugger family moved a short distance away, Thomas went with them and lived with his daughter's family until his death in 1973.

 


[1] Queensland birth certificate -Thomas

[2] Queensland marriage certificate - Thomas & Lily

[3] Queensland death certificate - Thomas

[4] Queensland Times, October 3, 1952

[5] Queensland Times, October 3, 11,18, 24 and 31, (1952)

[6] Gladys Helen Pobar and Veronica Margaret Pobar (the daughters of Grace’s brother Thomas Samuel Pobar).

[7]  However, the estate did not have sufficient funds left to provide the full £100.  It’s believed the Kangaroo Point house had been assigned before Grace's death to the Pobar girls. (James did divide the amount he received with Tom).